Funeral Home Etiquette

Everything you need to know about funerals.

When Visiting a funeral home

Of course you want to respect those grieving when you visit a funeral home. But, we understand that it’s sometimes confusing to figure out what this actually means. What do you say? What do you wear? Do you give the mourner a gift? How can you help them?

We want you to feel comfortable and relaxed when you’re at our funeral home. Here’s how you can feel at ease and help us respect these sacred grounds.

Visiting a funeral home

Here are some of the Dos and Don’ts for visiting the Wiederspahn-Radomsky Chapel of the Chimes:


Do:
  • Watch over children to ensure their safety.

  • Be respectful by keeping quiet around visitors who wish to reflect.

  • Follow the direction of the directors and ushers.
  • Turn off or silence your cell phone.
  • Be respectful by taking any call that must be answered outside.

Don't:
  • Take photos of other visitors, deceased, or funerals.
  • Litter.

  • Disturb flowers or plants.

  • Absolutely no pets allowed. For the consideration of the family and others attending the service that may be allergic, we cannot allow pets in the building, even emotional support animals.      (Only trained and vested handicap service dogs will be allowed into the building)

Visiting a funeral service

Here are some of the Dos and Don’ts for visiting the Wiederspahn-Radomsky Chapel of the Chimes for a funeral:


Do:
  • Watch over children to ensure their safety.

  • Be respectful by keeping quiet around visitors who wish to reflect.

  • Follow the direction of the directors and ushers.
  • Turn off or silence your cell phone.
  • Be respectful by taking any call that must be answered outside.


Don't:
  • Take photos of other visitors, deceased, or funerals.
  • Litter.

  • Disturb flowers or plants.

  • Absolutely no pets allowed. For the consideration of the family and others attending the service that may be allergic, we cannot allow pets in the building, even emotional support animals.      (Only trained and vested handicap service dogs will be allowed into the building)

Visiting the viewing parlors

Here are some of the Dos and Don’ts for visiting the Wiederspahn-Radomsky Chapel of the Chimes viewing parlors:


Do:
  • Watch over children to ensure their safety.

  • Be respectful by keeping quiet around visitors who wish to reflect.

  • Follow the direction of the directors and ushers.
  • Turn off or silence your cell phone.
  • Be respectful by taking any call that must be answered outside.


Don't:
  • Take photos of other visitors, deceased, or funerals.
  • Litter.

  • Disturb flowers or plants.

  • Absolutely no pets allowed. For the consideration of the family and others attending the service that may be allergic, we cannot allow pets in the building, even emotional support animals.      (Only trained and vested handicap service dogs will be allowed into the building)

Showing Support

There are no right or wrong ways to show support. You are being a source of support by simply coming to the funeral service. However, another great way to show support to the family is through sharing memories and stories of their loved one. You can also offer gestures of support by purchasing flowers or small gifts, such as a card, food, books or personalized gifts that reflect memories of the deceased. To get some more tips, check out our section on grief support. To find beautiful gifts for a loved one, visit our store.

We are Here to Help

Perhaps you've got special concerns about an upcoming funeral or memorial service? We're here to provide the answers you're looking for. Call us at (307) 632-1900.